Where Producers Come to Book Their Next Guest Expert
To Book a Guestpert:
Call 310-584-1504

Books Published By Jacquie Jordan Inc.

The Real Purpose of Parenting: The Book You Wish Your Parents Read
Dress Code: Ending Fashion Anarchy
NINETEEN: A Reflection of My Teenage Experience in an Extraordinary Life
Alex Details Revolution
Alex Detail's Rebellion
What's Hot!
This website is a place where television producers come to find guests, talent and guest experts (AKA "Guestperts") for their shows. It's also a place for people who want to get on TV...those who have expertise, talent or a message to share. Whether you are a television producer looking for your next guest or you are someone who wants publicity
and exposure, you are in the right place!
Sex and Romance

what's hot / Sex and Romance
Judith Claire & Frank Wiegers  
Sure Fire Sizzling Sex
Guestpert: Judith Claire & Frank Wiegers
Category: Sex and Romance

Speaking Point: Having truly ecstatic sex on a consistent basis requires knowledge and skill that in beyond what is naturally instinctive. Mastering all the elements of sure fire sizzling sex requires study and practice. You have to be willing to give up old beliefs and try new things. Here are some things to consider.

Speaking Point: There are three things that lead to truly ecstatic orgasms: 1, breath, 2 PC muscle, 3 moving energy. Using deep inhalations will help build arousal and strengthen erections in both men and women. Whenever you feel your arousal diminishing, focus on taking full deep breaths. Clenching the PC muscle will also help build arousal. Clenching the PC causes the penis to swell and throb and the vaginal walls to contract. You can couple this with the breathing so you are both in synch. Moving energy is simple for some and others seem to have a harder time with the concept. Visualize energy moving in, out, and through your body. Think of the energy you are generating in you sex organs. Now visualize that energy coming up into various parts of your body.

Speaking Point: Communicating about sex – can be difficult for some and others want to talk about it all the time. It’s not a good idea to have serious sex talks while you are in the process of making love. The only talk you want during the love making process is words of love and endearment. If there are some issues you want to resolve around you sex life it’s best to broach the subject somewhere else; like the living room or better on a walk or over coffee or tea. A fun way to start is to ask each other for five fun things you like about sex and then follow up with five things you don’t like about sex.

Speaking Point: Men’s multiple orgasm is possible but it takes a little training and practice. The idea here is too control ejaculation and move the sexual energy up from the genitals into the body. To learn this, men need to set aside enough time. Once arousal and erection are achieved continue to stimulate for at least 30 minutes without ejaculating. Bringing yourself to the point just short of ejaculation and stop stimulation. Breathe deeply and visualize the sexual energy moving up from the genitals into the heart or mind or wherever more energy is wanted. Continue stimulating until you reach at least six peaks before ejaculation. As the energy builds you may be able to convert that energy into a full body orgasm.

Speaking Point: Women’s solo practice is an invaluable way to learn all the different way you can be stimulated and brought to orgasm. Because each woman has a slightly different array of pelvic nerve distribution, each woman is different and will have different response to various forms of stimulation. Aside from the clitoris, there are several spots worth mentioning. The ‘G’ spot which is a spongy area around the inside top of the vaginal canal. This area does not become receptive until the woman is aroused; if her hips are moving and her nipples are erect. Other areas of sensual receptivity are the perineal sponge, the area between the vaginal opening and the anus. For some women the anus itself is very sensitive and responds well to stimulation.

Speaking Point: There are four stages of partner sex that apply especially to couples who are in some type of long term relationship where sex is not the urgent demand of a new relationship. To attain Sure Fire Sizzling Sex you will have to be proficient in each stage. The stages are: Pre-Play, Fore-play, The Play, and After-Play. This is a whole different topic and will be addressed in another talking point. Just to note that the Pre-Play phase is not well understood or utilized and is one of the key factors leading to the most Sizzling Sex!

Speaking Point: Fun sexual practices are things you can do to keep the romance fresh and interesting. A common need in relationships is for affection, conversation, sexual fulfillment and shared recreational activities. Why not combine them? One thing many long term partners do is schedule time for sex. The spontaneity occurs in how the sex is performed. Scheduling I&I (Intercourse and Intimacy) weekend getaways are great. There are many things to do at home. Role playing games are fun, such as: pizza man and horny housewife, teacher and pupil, doctor/nurse/patient, sheik/harem girl, cowboy/schoolmarm, cop/hooker. Costume can be fun. Light B&D (bondage and discipline) with cuffs and ropes and light spanking are also fun.

Speaking Point: There are some advanced sexual practices that many practitioners use as a spiritual practice. Prolonged sexual interaction can become a very meditative-like state. The partners learn to cycle the energy back and forth between each other leading to very blissful, ecstatic states. There are practices that use this ecstatic state to visualize things they want in their lives. The keys to having ecstatic sizzling sex start with knowing yourself and how your body works. Then know your partner and how their body works. Know what you want sexually and be willing to ask for it. Know how relationships work. It takes a highly functioning relationship to do this. Take the time to learn about sexual technology. Have a support system; a coach or a counselor that can help you learn these things.

Visit these sites to find even more interesting material related to this topic.

Related Media: HuffPo review

Related Media: More info

  Topic Area
opposite sex
self discovery
Business and Finance
Career and Workplace
Children and Parenting
Crime and Law
Education and Schools
Entertainment and Celebrities
Family and Relationships
Food and Cooking
Health, Fitness, and Beauty
Home and Garden
How To
Lifestyle, Fashion, and Travel
New Age
Pets and Animals
Politics and Government
Psychology and Self Help
Real Estate
Sex and Romance
Today's Headlines
Woman's Issues